A No That Makes Room for a Yes
You said no, rescued the evening, and then gave it straight to the laundry. On protecting time on purpose, what research on recovery suggests,…
Witch in Progress
I write about work, motherhood, caregiving, love, loss, money, creativity, starting over, getting things wrong, and the small moments that bring a person back into her own life. Some pieces are written. Some are recorded. None of them ask you to become a better version of yourself before you arrive.
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The room has gone quiet, and you are still answering everyone in your head. This is an essay, and an ordinary ritual, about getting your own attention back.
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The books
Four reflective books to keep for yourself.
You said no, rescued the evening, and then gave it straight to the laundry. On protecting time on purpose, what research on recovery suggests,…
The hot little feeling at the sink is not a character flaw. On resentment as an unspoken boundary, what research on swallowing our feelings…
You meant to say no and somehow offered to drive. On the padded refusal, why "I don't" stands more steadily than "I can't", and…
I'm a writer, mother, caregiver, and a recovering expert in holding everything together. Witch in Progress started when I got very good at keeping life moving and much less sure I was still inside it.
So I started paying attention — to the coffee going cold while I answered everyone else, to the things women end up responsible for without ever agreeing to them, to ambition after forty and grief that behaves badly in supermarkets. I'm writing from inside the unfinished part. That's where most of us actually live.
Witch in Progress is independent. If the work means something to you, becoming a patron keeps it going.